"THE DESTRUCTION OF THE BLACK FAMILY"

BY AL KING

TUNE IN tomorrow at 8PM on ‪#‎LIBKRadio‬ for our intense discussion....... “THE DESTRUCTION OF THE BLACK FAMILY”......... There is and has been a devised plan to destroy the prevalence and power of the BLACK FAMILY. From our men being emasculated by the system and our women being brainwashed into taking on dual roles, the systematic dominance has been crucial to the Black Family. Judicial injustice, ADD, Child Support, Homosexuality, Unethical hiring with Women being hired before men, Illegal and Legal Drugs, Family abandonment and Stress have all been ploys created to fast-forward the destruction.

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"WHY ARE THERE MORE SITUATIONS THAN RELATIONSHIPS?"

 Everyone has their own definition of what a relationship is and what it entails BUT do they know what a Situation is? Why do most Relationships fail and Situations blossom and boom? Sadly, alot of people are in a situation and don't even know it but are under the illusion that they are in something that makes sense. When we are able to define something, we are then able to seek understanding where we can then practice and execute its purpose.

Listen to our podcast of this discussion on "Let it be Known" Radio, hosted by Al King and Ms. Jones http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2014/05/15/why-are-there-more-situations-than-relationships-part-2-1

"BEING ENGAGED FOREVER"

WAKE UP LADIES!

A lot of women have accepted being engaged for what has turned into an eternity when in fact they are really ENTANGLED. By agreeing to something that has not been inclusive of love and good intentions some women have resorted to just settling and lowering their standards. Years and years go by and the only thing to show is a ring that has only fulfilled a public facade of being taken and claimed. It’s not easy to accept the reality that this marriage will most likely never take place because every year there is a glimmer of hope—but at some point it must be done. Engagements......in the times we reside in are what I deem as a suppressed and stalled act by Men. A ploy that he uses to control his woman and keep her under control which is an easy feat because all she may want is to say that she has a ring. As a man, I want to let you women know something about men. Men will straighten up in a heartbeat once they feel they are no longer a priority. Everything in this world passes through a woman so your power is indescribable. Sit firm in your standards and don’t compromise them just to not be alone. In life, what we accept is what we will have to expect.

Most of the time, these engagements transpire from ultimatums and conditions which are usually provoked by an act of infidelity in the relationship or the birth of a child.  As a result, he’s then forced to make this verbal promise that he has no intention of actually executing. He is on one page and she’s on another. Again, it is even questionable if marriage is really her goal because she will assume this position of fiance for YEARS. Statistically, it is said that engagements usually last 16 months.  Is the title of engagement and a ring a form of accomplishment and self-gratification that she only desires?  Could it just be the fancy of being called fiance rather than girlfriend?   Today, we are losing touch of the importance of marriage because we are focused on separations and divorce. Contributing to the bleak outlook is the ongoing cycle of non-commitment.  Also, there’s no dating, courting and taking the time to know a person that we have made a point of interest.  

Listen to our latest segment of LET IT BE KNOWN LIVE RADIO as we divulged a lot of clear perspectives on this hot topic…… podcast is here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2012/08/23/being-engaged-forever

“RACE vs ETHNICITY….. THE CONFUSION”

Race; Each of the major divisions of humankind, having distinct physical characteristics.

Ethnicity;The fact or state of belonging to a social group that has a common national or cultural tradition.

Specifically, inside the Black RACE and Culture there’s a constant act of inferior segregation because we can’t differentiate what race and ethnicity means. The lack of understanding the true meaning of each continues to create some confusion which results in pushing the race further apart. The definition of the two is very much similar and can bring so much different interpretations from one person to the next—creating debate. I do believe that in each race people are driven to disassociate themselves from their own race but emphasize their identities through their ethnicity's. The stereotypes, prejudices and stigmas are also contributing factors that add on to these misinterpretations that widely affect the Black culture……. We addressed the topic on our latest segment of LET IT BE KNOWN LIVE RADIO, listen here to the podcast; http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2012/08/16/race-vs-ethnicity-the-confusion

"OWNING YOUR DESTINY"

At some point......YOU have reached that point where “enough is enough.” Tired of what cards you have chosen to play with has possibly left you frustrated. What we must understand is that nothing happens just because you are flustered with circumstances that you have chosen to accept. To correct it all, one must change it with actions that will not reflect the acceptance of complacency and comfort as an excuse. You must begin with a fresh and different mindset by cutting off all non-complimentary components and inheriting new attitude and approach. One thing for certain is that if you don’t make it happen for yourself, I doubt if someone is going to place something that will help you right in your lap. Step up and stand out by owning your destiny so that you claim what is rightfully yours and “grab the bull by the horns” which will in turn only build pride and appreciation……. Listen to the podcast of our latest segment of LET IT BE KNOWN LIVE RADIO here:  http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2012/08/09/owning-your-destiny

“People Love what HATES them and Hate what LOVES them”

 

Interesting to say the least........what we need in our lives is exactly what we elect to resent and disregard by pushing it to the side. As a reaction, what’s for our betterment is treated as if it’s the cause of the problem. We continue to embrace and cherish what’s non-complimentary and what may have contempt toward us. Unfortunately, none of it adds up and it’s very conflicting but we live for the unnecessary imbalances. With Hate and Love being the most powerful forces of the emotional source—they are what we will endure in one facet or another as we live out each moment. As confusing as it may sound, people will love what hates them and hate what loves them in their relationships, friendships and overall life experiences. We tackled this issue with much perspective on our latest segment of LET IT BE KNOWN LIVE RADIO, check out the podcast here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2012/08/02/people-love-what-hates-them-and-hate-what-loves-them

“SUPPORTING YOUR OWN…… WHERE TRUE POWER LIES”

Why is the support of your own such an uncomfortable act for some and maybe in some cases MOST? I personally identify support as being love and it’s truly what enriches us as a whole and collectively—as a people. With that much importance and significance, my question is …… why is support scarce and exercised sparingly? It’s profoundly imperative that Support is prevalent in our communities, relationships, families and in our overall acts and gestures. The true power lies in empowering one another through the belief and action of support. Listen to our latest segment of LET IT BE KNOWN LIVE RADIO for a good one http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2012/07/19/supporting-your-own-where-true-power-lies

"WHY SETTLE, WHY ACCEPT MEDICORITY"

 

On our latest segment of LET IT BE KNOWN LIVE RADIO, we placed emphasis on being consistently motivated in meeting your own expectations and not settling for what is thrown at you. Many people settle and accept mediocrity plainly out of fear and a false sense of security that has caused them to discount any alternative and notion of transition. People approach relationships, jobs and marriages full of expectations but over time forget what they were in it for—leading to complacency. They kill off all of their personal expectations by choosing to have them dwarfed by those they are surrounded by who will accelerate that mediocrity. Mediocrity depletes a lot of potential, dreams and aspirations.  There are many of us that are unhappy with our present conditions but choose to accept them instead of challenge them. If you surround yourself with the right people, the right things will happen. Get those in your life that will stimulate and inspire you which will ignite that inner-fire in you. All of the things you don’t like you will then find the means to correct them.

Listen back to our podcast which included a lot of great input from our dynamic panel; http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2012/05/31/why-settle-why-accept-mediocrity