WAKE UP
LADIES!
A lot of
women have accepted being engaged for what has turned into an eternity
when in fact they are really ENTANGLED. By agreeing to something that has not
been inclusive of love and good intentions some women have resorted to just settling
and lowering their standards. Years and years go by and the only thing to show
is a ring that has only fulfilled a public facade of being taken and claimed. It’s
not easy to accept the reality that this marriage will most likely never take
place because every year there is a glimmer of hope—but at some point it must
be done. Engagements......in the times we reside in are what I deem as a suppressed
and stalled act by Men. A ploy that he uses to control his woman and keep her
under control which is an easy feat because all she may want is to say that she
has a ring. As a man, I want to let you women know something about men. Men will
straighten up in a heartbeat once they feel they are no longer a priority. Everything
in this world passes through a woman so your power is indescribable. Sit firm
in your standards and don’t compromise them just to not be alone. In life, what
we accept is what we will have to expect.
Most of
the time, these engagements transpire from ultimatums and conditions which are
usually provoked by an act of infidelity in the relationship or the birth of a
child. As a result, he’s then forced to
make this verbal promise that he has no intention of actually executing. He is
on one page and she’s on another. Again, it is even questionable if marriage is
really her goal because she will assume this position of fiance for YEARS.
Statistically, it is said that engagements usually last 16 months. Is the title of engagement and a ring a form
of accomplishment and self-gratification that she only desires? Could it
just be the fancy of being called fiance rather than girlfriend? Today, we are losing touch of the
importance of marriage because we are focused on separations and divorce. Contributing
to the bleak outlook is the ongoing cycle of non-commitment. Also, there’s no dating, courting and taking
the time to know a person that we have made a point of interest.
Listen
to our latest segment of LET IT BE KNOWN LIVE RADIO as we divulged a lot of
clear perspectives on this hot topic…… podcast is here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/letitbeknownlive/2012/08/23/being-engaged-forever